MY PDOC -- KUDOS TO HIM

I made an appointment and went to see my pdoc on last Thursday because I was vacillating between panic attacks and depression....I was a mess. He is so good...three days and I'm like a different person. I told him what seemed to help with the panic attacks; asked about one medicine we had tried before; he mentioned a possible interaction between two of my meds; and then we decided what to do.

RESPECT. It's always that way with him...a joint decision. His theory is that it is my illness and I need to understand it and the medications...because he might not always be my doctor. I should know what works and how and with what, etc. And that's why I like my pdoc. He respects me and my right to be in charge of my illness.

MEDICATION. With any medication, he explains what type of medication it is, how it works, possible side effects, and how we are hoping it will affect me. He tells me the strength of dosage he would like to prescribe and what the highest strength is. Then he asks if I want to try it. Likewise, if I am having mood swings, depression or mania he will explain that when "X" happens, sometimes increasing/decreasing medication "Y" is effective to stabilize the mood.
or...if there is an alternative he will mention that;perhaps adding another drug or changing an existing one. In the end, he will discuss the possibilities with me and the decision is a joint decision. I will add a caveat to this, if I am in a state where I am not thinking clearly, he does not ask me but simply prescribes the appropriate medication. That has only happened once!

MANNER. My pdoc is from India, in his mid 40's, impeccably dressed and quite good looking. He is obviously very intelligent; yet, he holds himself with dignity and shows respect for everyone he sees. He is friendly, comes forward to shake your hand and ask how you are and,after we have discussed my medication, he and I often end up having a little discussion about politics or something. He is fascinating in a discussion of current affairs because of his cultural views. His personal experience living in a country with an "Islamic-based" government is intriguing and his understanding of the Middle East and Israel and Palestine is amazing. He has great respect for people and life and I have great respect for him.